About

Hey there. I’m J. Riley, an NLP certified consultant and author of How to Get Over Your Ex and Online Dating Success.

A few years ago I found myself where you are right now. I was going through my first major relationship breakup and I was emotionally exhausted.

I realised I wasn’t equipped to deal with a breakup emotionally.

In fact, I lost my self-confidence and – to make things worse – I kept telling myself that I would never find love.

For me, every day was like groundhog day. I just couldn’t stop my mind from constantly running movies of painful reminders of the recent past.

After many weeks of heartache, I finally had to admit to myself that nobody was coming to the rescue. This was something I was going to have to figure out myself.

My journey took me into a two year period of intense learning. I became an avid student of male psychology, of ancient learnings, from stoicism to philosophy and human performance. I wanted to know how to take control of my own mind.

I began studying and later became certified in Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) by the one and only Richard Bandler school of NLP (the original founder).

As my knowledge grew my life changed. I became unrecognisable even to myself.

I figured my way out of my breakup, as most men do eventually, but – unlike many – I was able to rebuild myself from the ground up into a self-confident make who was able to attract higher caliber females into my life.

Moreover, for the first time in my life, I was able to create choices for myself.

I realised I had unlocked many keys to fulfilling my potential. I’d gone from a sorry excuse of a man filled with self-pity to a man who know the secrets of attraction and social value.

It was then that I decided to write How to Get Over Your Ex to help guide other guys in my position to get over their past and thrive.

It was at that point that I began toying with online dating. I thought, why not take this online and create even more choice?

But, to my shock, I discovered that I couldn’t engage women online. This was a new playing field. There was no face to face, it was all down to communication.

I knew immediately that I was missing something. There is a subtle way to communicate in the mating game, and if you want to win online you need to understand the psychology of social communication.

The game was on.

For the next 6 months, I immersed myself in online dating, testing and documenting dozens of approaches. I crafted hundreds of interactions and pieced together the most comprehensive online dating strategy for men, which then became the book known as Online Dating Success.

These two books are essential reading for any man wishing to understand women and to unlock the key to attract high caliber mates.

I believe this information can and will change your life.

Every man owes it to himself to become the best they can be and get the best they can get. If somebody had offered me that in my twenties, all for the price of half a dozen coffees, I’d have snatched it with both hands.

That said, it’s never too late. Wherever you are in life, you deserve the best you can get so you can enjoy the rest of it.

I encourage you to read my books and take control of your life.

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Enjoy and thanks again for dropping by.
J. Riley